I got into this whole mess of game because I wanted to bang hot girls. I got into daygame specifically because I didn’t want to have to rely on wings for my success, and assumed that this would be mostly a solo journey. Fortunately, I was wrong.
I instead met a number of other guys who have an debauched evolved perspective of dating dynamics. One of them being the guest author of this post, Brown. He started in NYC’s backyard, New Jersey, and came to town every now and then with a banger of a story described in Lee Cho’s blog. I met him shortly after in NYC during Midwest’s trip out here.
Between his taste in women and travel stories abound, Brown decided to head down to Medellín. Without further ado, here’s this man’s story.
Medellin, Colombia Trip Review
“Te ves linda” and “vamos a tomar algo otro dia” were the most 2 common sentences spoken by me in the last 10 days. I am writing this as I am sitting on a plane back to the US. This year I finally decided to go on my first international Daygame jaunt. As I was scouting for locations I had 2 continents in mind. Europe (Prague) and South America. The maximum days I can make this trip was 10 days due to my work commitments and I’m unable to work from another country. I already knew that 10 days was too short of a time for a daygame jaunt but I had to work with what I had. I heard really good things about South America for daygame including hotness of Latina girls and their receptiveness to cold approaches. And then talking to Breeze and Midwest about their experiences in South America made me take the final step of deciding Colombia as my first international jaunt destination.
I immediately knew some of the challenges that I would face, the biggest one being not able to speak Spanish. I read up on few blog posts and talked to a few daygamers who didn’t speak spanish and still had some success in Colombia. The 2nd challenge was the short number of days I was going to be there. I initially thought I would push for more SDLs and instadates to overcome this challenge, which would prove me completely wrong as I would find out later.
So I booked my 10 days trip to Medellin with one of my wings who is not on Twitter but does daygame and nightgame. Based on the research and few tips from Breeze and Midwest, I knew which areas to book an Airbnb in and which places were best for daygame. We stayed in the Poblado area within a walking distance to a few good date venues. I made sure the logistics were right on point for this trip to overcome other challenges I was already going to face. The best places to daygame in Medellin are the malls where you would find the highest volume and highest quality of Latina girls. The best time to daygame is 4-8 PM in the malls. We also made plans to visit tourist attractions in Medellin to not get burned out from just approaching and wanting to take this opportunity to sightsee.
As we landed in Medellin on a sunny Friday afternoon, we checked in to our Airbnb first. I was very happy with the location of my Airbnb as I explored the surrounding area and scouted for potential date venues. It had everything from cozy bars, cafes, restaurants, rooftops, to intimate bars within 5 minutes of walking distance. After checking in to our Airbnb, we went out to buy some water bottles, wine, beers, and snacks to fill the kitchen up for the next few days. At around 4 PM, we headed straight to the mall to start approaching. As I had expected, the quality of girls exceeded any expectations that I had before coming here. I saw the potential of unlimited sets to open in the mall and that too with 8s, and 9s walking around.
The excitement of seeing the quality compared to what I have seen in my small hometown back in US quickly made me do my first approach. I opened around 16 sets within 3 hours and collected about 11 numbers using google translator throughout all the sets since none of the girls I opened spoke any English. I knew getting numbers in Colombia is a piece of cake but actually getting girls out on dates is the real game. I went back to my Airbnb feeling happy and sent feelers to all my leads on Whatsapp. Out of 11 numbers, about 5 responded to my feeler and I started having conversations with them in Spanish over texting.
This pattern would continue for next 3-4 days as I got more leads and tried to get girls out on a date. Not being able to speak Spanish was hindering my ability to run smooth game during the set. As I was using the google translator conversation feature sometimes it would take longer and sometimes it would catch wrong phrases than what I wanted to say. Although some girls patiently waited, some started walking away due to the language barrier. I quickly adapted to overcome this challenge by making my sets shorter but delivering my opener in Spanish and quickly using at least one stack before number closing. Once I number closed, I started building more comfort on Whatsapp and running some game over texting. I found this to be useful in making the leads stronger as they felt more comfortable having conversations in Spanish over text.
This technique worked for me in getting few girls out on a date who spoke zero English. Now the 2nd major issue started appearing and that is the flakiness of Latinas. I knew this before from multiple people that I should double or triple book dates on the same night as Latinas are very flaky. Each day I was scheduling 2-3 back-to-back dates and sure enough they were flaking. Interestingly all the girls that I was able to get out on dates didn’t speak a word of English. I did speak to a few girls who spoke little english but they never came out on a date.
With few dates that I went to, I found out there are 2 types of girls that you will meet in Colombia through daygame:
- Girls that just want attention and free drinks with a foreigners but have no intension of going any further
- The sweet and innocent latina girls who actually want to get to know you, are romantically interested in you and possibly sees you as a long term partner
I found the 2nd type of girls to be really sweet and kind. I have not experienced this behavior in the US from American girls where they are the one chasing you, responding to your texts very quickly, investing in you more, asking you a lot of questions and overall just wanting to get to know you better. This is the quality of Latina girls that make them very desirable.
Out of all the dates, 2 girls standout the most and with whom I had really good time. One girl is the one you will read about in the lay report below and other one (fitness coach) with whom I didn’t have enough time to spend due to the short nature of the trip. With the fitness coach, I had a first date and then she had to leave the city to travel with her friends so I couldn’t get her out on 2nd date but she is very keen to meet me and texting me everyday. Sadly when she comes back from the trip, I will already be in US. Both girls were really into me and gave me signals of wanting to be in a relationship.
So would I recommend Colombia for a daygame jaunt or would I return back here? Abso-fucking-lutely. Its a beautiful place to visit, learn about the history, visiting many tourist attractions and meeting it’s beautiful women. However, I would only come here if I could stay here longer than 2-3 weeks. Preferably a month or more. 10 days or even 2 weeks is very short period of time to get decent results from daygame. If I had stayed here for 1-2 months I am 100% sure that I would’ve had 2-3 regulars here without speaking any Spanish. But of course your game, including non verbals, have to be on point.
Girls here really want to spend more time with you and get to know you better over a long period of time. Getting laid on a first date is rare (unless the girl is extremely into you and you get lucky). Most girls want to see you on more dates before getting physical with you (to rule out foreigners only looking for quick sex – I know very ironic). Although knowing Spanish would have probably increased my success by 3X, I still think you can get decent success here without knowing how to speak spanish. I didn’t have any issues connecting with girls I got out on dates with just using google translator and girls that were attracted to me felt the same way. It actually helped me build more attraction through my non verbal sub communications and increased sexual tension on dates.
Here are my overall Stats:
Approaches: 77
Number closes: 35
First Dates: 6
2nd dates: 3
Lay: 1
Lay Report: 
Biker Girl
It was the 2nd day of my 10 day trip to Colombia that I approached this hot brunette girl walking solo in the mall. Majority of the girls here don’t speak English so I had to use google translator to run the set. I don’t speak Spanish but I had just learned basic words and memorized my opener in Spanish. It was a quick 1 minute set where I delivered my opener then took out the translator app and delivered my stack. I number closed and sent her my feeler text. She responded quickly and I built some comfort over texting. I was texting in Spanish as its easier to build comfort and I can use the translator app to translate the messages.
We set a date to meet 2 days later on Monday afternoon as she had some family commitments in the evening. We decided to meet at a bar near my airbnb. She confirmed the date but on the day of the date she canceled and asked to reschedule for another day offering to meet on Wednesday. I had other leads so I just agreed and re-scheduled the date to Wednesday at 2 PM. On that morning I sent my date confirmation and she agreed. However now she said she can’t drink alcohol because she is riding a motorcycle to the date. Which was a valid reason, luckily there was a really nice cafe right next to the bar we were meeting at. So I just told her we’ll meet at the cafe and have a coffee. She said ok and told me she is nervous to meet me. I built some comfort saying “don’t be nervous we are just getting to know each other”.
She showed up looking really sexy with a motorbike outfit. Black leather jacket, black tights, helmet in one hand and open hair. She looked really good. We entered the cafe and ordered a coffee and I took out my phone to use google translator conversation tool. The conversation flowed pretty smoothly, we were sitting at 90 degree angle and I was giving her very strong eye contact as I was speaking into the translator app. I ran the typical date model, with some comfort at first, few spikes, started escalating, she was receptive to my touch. I tried to go for the kiss but she denied saying maybe later. So I pulled back and talked about something else. We actually connected on so many different things and we shared some similar interests. As we talked more she got more and more impressed with how similar we both were and how the conversation was flowing smoothly even with a language barrier. I seeded the pull to watch some dance videos back at my apartment and she said she would love to but not today. So I thought ok she is probably not ready for pulling but I’ll try one more time later.
As we talked more, she got more comfortable and kind of started hinting that she would like to see me dance. I took the opportunity to seed the pull by saying “let’s finish this coffee and go back to my apartment. I’ll show you a dance video and my dance steps and then you can leave whenever you want” to this she said “I don’t know”. But I knew from the way she looked at me that she was down. So I closed the check and led her to my apartment which was a 2 minute walk from the cafe. Interestingly as soon as she entered the apartment, she entered my bedroom instead of putting her stuff in the living room. My bedroom is on the left side by the entrance and the living room is on the right side. She then sat down on the bed and we talked. I didn’t want to over escalate here (as I have lost past few leads by over escalating and pushing for a quick lay) so I showed her the rest of my apartment and put on music videos on youtube. I showed her some dance moves and grabbed her hand to dance with me. We started dancing and then I kissed her. She was receptive to the kiss and there was some small LMR but quickly I led her to the bedroom and it was a done deal.
Hallelujah! Another guy in America experiences proper feminine energy outside of the Land of the Free. Glad you had a grand ole time down there.
Now despite being in debt to Brown for contributing to my blog, I’m a proper greedy gentleman, so I will take this opportunity to plug my own experience down in Medellín 👉 right here 👈.